These writings are reflections drawn from my own experiences, observations, and the patterns I notice in the way we understand ourselves, relate to others, and make sense out of our lives.
Is Your Candy Bucket Already Full?
Sometimes it’s not the last thing that overwhelms us. It’s everything that was already there. A reflection on the visible and invisible things filling our candy buckets, how we can keep adding more without noticing our limits, and what might become possible with a little more room.
Not that Kind of Coach
The word coach used to make me cringe. A reflection on what changed my mind, what coaching gave me that I did not know I needed, and the kind of support I now believe can help people see what they cannot always see on their own.
Community vs. Connection
I was surrounded by people and still felt disconnected. A reflection on the difference between belonging somewhere and experiencing authentic connection and what changed when I stopped managing how I was being perceived.
Project Management for your Personal Life
What if the thing overwhelming you is simply a project you were never meant to manage alone? A reflection on how my background in project management became part of the way I now help people untangle complicated situations.
Too Many Open Tabs
Some of the heaviest things we carry are the ones we do not even realize are still running. A reflection on people-pleasing, sensitivity, old beliefs, and the invisible mental load they create.
I Thought I was Healed
I thought I had done the work. Then I burned out again. A reflection on sobriety, corporate life, and realizing that healing is not always about changing yourself enough to tolerate what does not fit.